dude thats a classic dealership bullshit line. Dont listen to that garbage, look around this forum, the cars that need the least maintenance are the ones driven hard on the reg. Dont drive softer.
AMEN!
I am at around 136K miles, owned since new. I drive HARD, always above 3k RPM.
Maintenance wise, all I have done:
2 clutches, but that is to be expected.
0 Water Pumps
2 sets of front sway bar end links(i seem to blow these about every 50k)
1 Timing chain and tensioner, only cause some asshat at a indie shop tried and failed to launch my car and threw it a tooth.
that's it other than oil changes, and tires.
Drive it hard and smoothly and she will love you for it.