I usually drive in manual mode when below 50 mph then I just stick it in drive. Car feels so sluggish about 50ish to me.
I think I might of found a 2011 6speed gti for about 19k less miles see what they can work out. If not I'll look into a audi a4,Wrx or hold out and get into a mk7
Any A4 you can get into at this price point is not going to be worth it. You'll be paying out your ears in service fees. The WRX is a solid, reliable vehicle, so if you can afford it, and you realize you'll be taking a downgrade on the quality of the interior (which plays a huge role for me, seeing as I don't race around like a maniac all that often), then go for it.
If you can get the 2011 GTI, and only tack on a couple more thousand to your already existing bill, then go for it. But please, for the sake of your own financial security, stick with this car until you pay it off!!!