I let it idle for couple minutes down and was surpriced that my oil temp actaully went higher ( we have the sensor for that in euro models)..
The engine oil temperature went up because the oil was doing its job, which was drawing the heat out of the turbo bearing and carrying it away to the rest of the engine and/or the oil cooler where it ultimately dissipated. If the oil temperature sensor was located at the oil discharge point on the turbo (instead of wherever it really is), and you could see what the oil temperature is at this, the hottest point for oil on the engine, you'd probably crap yourself. It's kind of amazing that any kind of conventional oil could ever survive that kind of thermal abuse. That's one of the main reasons that they fill our TDIs with synthetic oil...
...sometimes i just drive slowely before coming back home from a spirited drive..isnt that better than idling?
also if the fans dony kick in when i turn it off, is that an indicator that i did a good job in cooling stuff down?...
It's not
better than idling, but any kind of operation that keeps oil flowing through the turbo bearing without adding heat to the turbo is better (for cooling the bearing) than operating with a load on the engine.
There are two different (and more-or-less unrelated) reasons that the fans could go/remain on after shutdown:
1) The engine coolant was hot enough to require the fans for cooling to prevent a coolant discharge.
2) The computer decided, based on various conditions and/or sensor inputs, and without knowing that you were about to shut down the car, that it was time to conduct a DPF regeneration cycle. Once the cycle is initiated and the DPF has heated up, unless the car is traveling at a speed that provides enough airflow around the engine to keep everything around the DPF "happy", the fans will run to provide that airflow...even after shutdown.
So, if the fans
don't kick on, then the engine coolant
is cool enough,
and there is
no DPF regeneration cycle taking place...
Well, I feel kind of stupid. I just noticed that you are not driving a TDI at all. That means that you can ignore everything that I just said about DPF regeneration in 2) above. Only 1) applies to your situation...