Here are your front fenders - you will need both the part and the liner - probably come unpainted so double the price for paint, at least:
http://www.ecstuning.com/Volkswagen-Golf_VI--2.0T/Exterior/Body/Fender/
Side skirts:
http://www.ecstuning.com/Volkswagen-Golf_VI--2.0T/Exterior/Body/ES1931428/
Door shell only:
http://www.parts.com/oemcatalog/ind...=GTI&year=2011&catalogid=2&displayCatalogid=0
$400 each + paint and shipping
man up and call the insurance. You're screwed.
i understand the desire to do that but what you want is for them to send an adjuster out and have them give you a FULL estimate and then have your buddy do his estimate.
I'm not saying don't do it, I am saying be careful because if your buddy doesn't do it perfectly, you have no recourse. If the insurance company doesn't get it done perfectly, you can legally annoy them forever.
Also, it looks like you need a new keyboard as a number of your words are missing letters.
You also want them to pay you for diminished value. When the time comes to sell your car there will be a record of the insurance payout for the damages (carfax) and your car will be worth less than a car that hasn't been damaged & repaired. Make sure the people responsible compensate you for it.