good rationale, but i (20) am springing for a manual. I reside in hilly san francisco, and although i may add a little more wear to the clutch with so many hill starts, i think that will still be better in the long run than a dsg.
I figured I might as well give my input. I've been lurking for a while but I finally decided to make an account. I live in San Francisco, Ingleside district, and I live on a pretty steep hill. I'm 23 and I only learned how to drive stick in June of this year, with the GTI. I have been driving automatics since I was 18.
I bought the car and learned on the lot before I drove home (when I say I, it means my parents haha). The dealership didn't have someone available to teach stick so I kinda just learned myself. After about an hour and a half of stalling at least 30 times on the new GTI, I took to the streets. It was a very harrowing experience and one I won't forget. Burning tires, burning clutch, burning face, and horn honking does not make my first experience great. Getting off the freeway heading home, where the offramp was a incline, was also not fun. Almost bumping into cars and stalling on hills on the way home was not either.
Eventually I arrived home, used the bathroom, and drove off to the closest parking lot, which was the big parking lot that the community college had (CCSF). Fortunately, I did some extensive reading and video watching beforehand so I wasn't clueless, but videos and reading can only do so much. I did what everyone recommended, which was just have it in gear, lift off the clutch until the car moves and let go. For some reason, that was really hard for me because I lacked dexterity in my feet and I kept stalling or it wouldn't be a smooth start. I did this for about a week, every night, until I was acceptably smooth and quick.
I've been driving for almost half a year now, but I still feel like I have a lot to learn. I still rape my clutch parking on hills, and just driving. I have no one to teach me so I'm just learning and constantly changing based on new information I receive. At the moment, I'm practicing my single clutch downshifts, but I'm not able to do it fast enough. I have tried heel toe but the brake pedal is so high, the right side of my right foot barely reaches the accelerator pedal and I just end up braking really hard instead of shifting.
Personally, even though it's really hard, driving a stick in SF isn't too bad. It's fun and it does make the trip to the local grocery store more exciting. Sorry for the wall of text by the way XD