The R is alive again! An awesome dubber from NY had a used transfer case laying around that came with a rebuilt transmission he needed. Got a great deal at $550 vs $3,000 new. Had my dealer install and they also replaced the control arm damaged from the tow company (of course they won't own up to it...).
Anyway, I'm super stoked to have her back on the road. She'll be on weekend and possibly some snow duty from here on out.
I already ordered some mods for my daily mk7 GTI with the 42DD shifter bushings and the APR Short Shifter/relay lever. I'll do the clutch bleeder and spring mods as well. As soon as I get under the car to get a look at the dogbone type I'll order the 034 billet insert. As for tune, I plan to do nothing just yet as I'm not looking forward to a clutch job so soon after the ordeal with the R. Who knows if I'll stick to that... either way, guess I'll need to make an account on golfmk7 for that
Btw- when I picked my R back up I noticed the DRL's were not on. All the wiring was fine and they came on with the headlights but would turn off without headlights on. I searched deep and wide for what could be the problem and someone in Australia made a video about a sequence of shutting the car off, putting parking brake on, turning on power (no ignition yet) pulling the blinker stalk down, high beams back, then start the car and release parking brake... after 5 seconds a chime comes on and you shut off the DRL's. Do the same except push the blinker stalk up to turn them back on. One of the three tows or two dealers who looked at the car since she went down must have inadvertently done the sequence to shut off the DRL's... (this is all from memory so if you have this issue and it doesn't work try to search for the correct sequence).