Why're you offering to pay anything... why are you hesitating on ratting out a dealer that's going to turn around and fuck you with no lube? Fuck that dealer, and fuck all the shit you've had to put up with. Get VWOA on the phone, rat them out, tell them you've been waiting an extremely ungodly amount of time, costing you close to a thousand if not more. Throw them under the bus, and get your satisfaction and don't try and throw money at them to push their hands into the work. They're there to provide that service in a timely manner, its in their contract when they purchase the license from VW. If they're stalling out on doing the repairs because they "just don't want to" call VWOA again... and again... and again, until it's done and done right.