I would occasionally get tired of the manual while commuting in and out of NYC. Most of the time, though, I would think of shifting as something to break the monotony while sitting in traffic. Thankfully, the clutch is so ridiculously light on the GTI; if I had the commute in an evo or something, I think I would have ended up getting out and pushing at some point. I was more worried about wear on the clutch, since a lot of the time you can't even get it into first before having to put the clutch back in. I never had to drive as far as you, though. For you, maybe your drive is too much for a stick. Just think of it as a temporary thing, enjoy the manual for what it is, and the next commuter should be a dual-clutch auto. The best solution, though, is obviously to keep the GTI and get a different commute.