so if anyone gets shafted by an ebay seller (this guy did) and gets a junk panel, it is possible to disassemble the panel to swap parts. and its pretty easy too.
just take the 5 screws out of the back and pry on the back panel between the panel and the pcb. the ac button is the only thing holding it together besides the 5 screws and the button is just pressed on. i used a plastic case opening tool for iphone/ipad for example. once i pried for a bit around the center the button popped off and the panel opened up.
then remove whatever pieces you need. in my case its the front trim piece and the recirc button. the front trim can just be popped off without opening the hvac itself.
repaired panel.
also, in case anyone is interested, i dumped the firmware from the 93c86 eeprom inside the climatic hvac controls:
http://www.filedropper.com/vwmk6climatic3c8907336ajori
i wanted to dump the firmware from the original hvac since it has the updated firmware to fix the cold on hot problem. but it seems the flash is embedded in the cpu. so not very easily accessible.